Your lifestyle is basically your life every day.
When you identify and compose similarities your days share (over a stretched period) that’s your lifestyle.
Your lifestyle moves beyond your daily habits to strong identifiers of your life. Your lifestyle governs your daily decisions as well as your day-to-day activities.
Adopting the lifestyle of a successful woman can lead you to your own success.
Do you have a healthy lifestyle?
Having a healthy lifestyle involves paying keen attention to essential aspects of your life- Your health, your mind, and your body.
- Be relentless.
- Have set goals.
- Always aim high
- Develop yourself
- Keep the right circle
- Have faith
- Be quick to recover from setbacks.
Chances are that the door won’t open the first time you knock. So you have to keep knocking till it opens. If it doesn’t and you need to get in there. Smash the da*n door down.womanariseshine
Relentlessness is the fervor to continue and continue till you get what you want. Life’s not Santa Claus it’s not going to give you everything you want whenever you ask for it. You must build a lifestyle of relentlessness. The zeal to wake up every morning and proclaim…today’s a great day to try again.
Have you read the story of the man who stole a goldmine because he dug and dug but didn’t find anything? The man who brought the land found gold in a short time of digging. The first man had only been searching the wrong vein.
Life can get tough no doubt. You must build relentlessness to punch life hard in the face, or at least get smart enough to do*** life’s punches as often as possible.
“You must be passionate, you must dedicate yourself, and you must be relentless in the pursuit of your goals. If you do, you will be successful.”Steve Garvey
Have set goals.
If you don’t know where you are going, you miss it anyway.
Every day I wake with 4 to 5 things I set out to achieve which help accomplish my monthly goals and then my yearly goals in the long run.
Woman set your goals. Write them down… What are you working on today? How are you spending your leisure time?
If I spend my whole day on the couch bingeing a series while munching on crackers without any set-out plans for the day or the week. I can binge right on for days with no questioning thoughts.
Contrarily, when goals are set I limit the time spent bingeing to accomplish my daily tasks. My set goals guide the daily allocation of my time, energy and resources.
Setting goals help you realize how much time you waste, and how much time you leave unused.
Master the art of setting goals, and watch your life transform minute after minute, day after day, month after month, year after year into a successful one.
Goal-setting in psychology is an essential tool for self-motivation and self-drivenness – both at personal and professional levels. It gives meaning to our actions and the purpose of achieving something higher.
According to psychology, Setting goals are linked with higher motivation, self-esteem, self-confidence, and autonomy and research has established a strong connection between goal-setting and success
Goal-setters see future possibilities and the big picture.
Always aim high.
If you aim for the sun, you could land among the stars.
Understanding how benevolent life can be broadens the mind to make demands in life. There are absolutely zero benefits of aiming so low, except that you did land without a scratch if you fall. But what good is that?
Research found that individuals who aim high realize higher levels of attainment in the academic and work spheres, which is also linked to more life achievement.
Someone who demands and gets ready to receive is more likely to receive compared to someone who doesn’t care.
Why? Because you know what you want. You know how it looks. If it passes by today you recognize it and grab a hold of it.
Aim high woman, there’s no glory down there. Push yourself till you belong to the top. Except you prefer it down there, then that’s fine. But why would you? Almost every successful person didn’t wake up one morning to find themselves successful. They aimed high and worked it out continuously till got to the top.
“do not choose the lesser life.
do you hear me?
do you hear me?
choose the life that is. yours.
the life that is seducing your lungs.
that is dripping down your chin.”
― Nayyirah Waheed, Nejma
Don’t miss the chance to receive the confidence boost free.
Constantly. Tirelessly. Strategically.
If you aim to become a successful woman, build a daily routine around developing yourself. Get better at something compared to yesterday. Expand your knowledge bank. Improve on a craft.
Remember, fortune favours the prepared. Developing yourself daily is an easy way to keep you “always prepared”.
Each day you need to spend some time with and for yourself. This time, which Napoleon Hill called “study, think and plan daily time” is crucial to continuous self-improvement and development.
Think about your goals every day, at least once each day, preferably once in the morning and once before bed. View those goals with a positive mental attitude and know you will achieve them.
Inspect your attitudes, your actions and your thinking each day. Are they contributing to success or slowing you down? How can you improve them?
Study inspirational, self-help action materials
Take time to study, think, and plan each day, and do so with a positive mental attitude.
The “study, thinking and planning” attitude unclutters your mind to identify and focus and what really matters- I know this because I speak from experience.
Start by reading Make Up Your Mind: Unlock Your Thoughts.
Keep the right circle.
You should attract who/what you are. But if a crook sneaks in make sure you kick it out and shut the door- firmer this time.womanariseshine
Keeping the right circle is an important lifestyle to develop and not overlook.
We are born alone.
We die alone,
It’s only in our association with friends and loved ones do we have the impression that we are not alone.
As humans, we do not move alone we find company in people, in groups because it takes the weight of journeying alone off our shoulders. 15 miles seems like 5 miles when walking and chattering with friends.
Have a lifestyle of associating with the good and right company for you.
Build a circle of faithful, strong women you can always rely on.
“When we have a circle of friends, we have more fun. We get more done, we feel and are stronger, and we really do celebrate the power of our ‘us.'”Mary Anne Radmacher
Napoleon Hill describes faith as convincing yourself that your goal is achievable.
When you apply your faith in yourself, your faith in your fellow man, and your faith in God, the result is a positive course of action that when persistently followed will almost always lead to success. When you believe in your ideas and your abilities, you are on your way to success.
Faith is your belief that the journey will lead to your destination.
Your belief that your work will eventually pay off.
Your belief in God, despite weathering storms.
Faith is the push you have to press on.
Adopt a lifestyle of prayer. A prayerful lifestyle is a successful lifestyle. Believe in God and in His desires to bless you. It is in prayers you receive the directions and the blessings you need. Don’t neglect prayer. Pray woman!
For those who pray know that there is a merciful God who always hears them. The Lord cares for you woman, you are His daughter and he desires to give you a full life with blessings as toppings. Remember the Lord your God as you sashay through life.
Be quick to recover from setbacks.
It’s okay to fall but make sure you get right back up, don’t romanticize the ground. Get up again and again, as long as you aren’t standing- get up.
Did you fail? Okay, what next.
Didn’t get the job? Try again.
Missed the opportunity? Look out for more.
Got disappointed? Appoint yourself.
It is unbeneficial to remain in the victim stage for too long.
I once read- Don’t make yourself the victim in this life. If you find yourself constantly wallowing in misery, complaining and feeling downcast. Watch out, you might be victimizing yourself.
I have learned to recover quickly from setbacks.
To get right back to my feet after I fall.
When you learn the lifestyle of “quick recovery”, you have mastered a valuable survival skill.
Read- Grit:The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
Remember your health.
You are as good as your health.womanariseshine
You care for your health every single day by what you eat or don’t eat. Do or don’t do.
When the health is affected, every other thing ceases to matter. Your focus now shifts to regaining your health back.
Eat rightly, sleep enough, go for regular checkups, and avoid unhealthy food and drinks. For a healthy lifestyle, exercise is mandatory.
You don’t need to spend hours in the gym, taking enough steps a day can suffice.
Exercise controls weight, combats health conditions and diseases, improves mood, and boosts your energy.
There are enough benefits of exercising to partake. So why not exercise?
Until next time.
Sometimes all you need is “to know what” to do. A deficiency in knowledge can cost you- cost you your time, your resources, your energy and your peace. Hence, you must be receptive to knowledge that grooms you.
Napoleon Hill said; it pays to know how to buy knowledge. Get the knowledge you need and hold on to it.
The daily routine of a successful woman or a woman well on her way to success must incorporate routines of development, growth, mind building and focus.
First things first, build a successful lifestyle.
You are capable. You are more woman.
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